I have one vaginal lip that is slightly longer than the other side, about 1 cm longer, is this normal? Do other women have this size difference between their lips?
Absolutely normal! Just like how no two snowflakes are identical, no two bodies are exactly the same. Embrace your uniqueness!
I'm not entirely sure, I have only been with one woman and she had them identical and small, but it's possible it could be normal, but a bit odd looking.